The Power of Staying Fully Present
10 years ago, this would be the question I would constantly ask
And didn’t know the impact – both personally and professionally.
𝑾𝒉𝒂𝒕’𝒔 𝒏𝒆𝒙𝒕?
Whether I was sitting on a beach
Hanging with my tribe
At work
At home
I could think of a gazillion things I had to do:
Respond to that work email
Attend this or that meeting
Prepare for this or that meeting
Put out a fire
Conduct a team meeting
Have 1:1’s with my team
Call this person or that person
And that wasn’t even my personal obligations…
Time w/ my family and friends
Grocery shopping
Laundry
Make dinner
The list could go on and on..
All I could ask myself was – what’s next?
What is the next thing I must tackle?
The cost?
- My health and well-being suffered
- Relationships both personally and professionally suffered
- My career suffered
On top of that, I rarely ever fully enjoyed the moment I was in…
I was there physically…but mentally…I wasn’t
I knew something had to give.
I chose to make one change at a time
*** Going without my phone
*** Being aware when that voice came up in my head and shutting it down
*** And leveraging my “team” to call me out when they saw me drifting
And the result….
I became fully present and enjoy each moment
And let me tell you, there is no better gift I could give myself or someone else.
If you’ve overcome this, what are your best practices for staying fully present?